Just as the miller’s daughter in Rumpelstiltskin was called upon to spin straw into gold, we often have opportunities to turn an unfortunate thought or circumstance into good. While I was on break the last couple of weeks, I found myself in a warm climate surrounded by several thousand people in bathing suits. I confess I often reacted with less than charitable thoughts.
“You should not be wearing that bikini, girlfriend.”
“That Speedo is not doing you any favors, bro.”
After a couple of days, I realized that I was poisoning my own spirit with these thoughts. All those folks were soaking up sunshine and having a great time without any regard to my opinion, and rightfully so. I decided that every time I had a judgmental thought I would turn it into something positive.
“That’s a great color on you.”
“I admire your self-confidence.”
Everyone continued enjoying their vacation in blissful ignorance of my alchemical feats. And my mood improved so much that I started passing out silent compliments regardless of judgmental thoughts.
“Love your accent.”
“Nice smile.”
It seemed that everywhere I looked, there was something or someone to send a pleasant thought to. I found myself humming a familiar tune.
You’ve got to accentuate the positive
Eliminate the negative
And latch on to the affirmative
Don’t mess with Mister In-Between.
–Johnny Mercer
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